10 Rules
- Be positive to everyone till they prove they want other to do with it
- Take you days
- Don't leave it till last min
- Try try again!
- Work hard
- Be smart
- Kill them with kindness
- Have a sense of humor
- Be yourself
- Fight for what you believe in
1. The Seeds of Self-Esteem "From self-love to self-worth
Having creativity is a way to get your self-esteem up. It's a good outlet to help you grow and have fun. Yes its a really hard to be creative sometimes I would know I sometimes run out of ideas and just sit there and wait for me to get hit with something but once you're hit with an idea you should write it down or get to work on making it come true. When you have a passion for something you put your all in it and it might not always work but trust me people will know that you put your all into what you tried to make.
Being responsible is something almost everyone I know has yes we play around and tell jokes but almost everyone has to be responsible. That's one of the things we learn to do when we grow up that being responsible is a must. Growing up we learn that we have to do things younger us couldn't do we have to make decisions that we couldn't do as kids.
Having wisdom is important not only will it help us choose things from pass problems. We learn things every day we even if we don't see it. Sometimes we see the big things happend and we learn to never do it again. Wisdom is one of the keys to be a successful person from all the things they done in life they know what not and what to do.
Most people have a purpose in life. They have that one goal they want to get to or just a purpose all together. I know many people who have purpose in and everyday they set out to do things. They set out to make their purpose known and trust me that the people who follow them know their purpose and we will always help it come true. One of the people im talking about is purpose is "To change the world" and this sounds really weird but let me explain. He has an impact on many people around the world and he does such a good job making sure it doesn't go over his head. Hes such a kind person and just to cut it short he wants to make sure that he leaves a mark on the next generation. He wants the people who will come after him to follow in his footsteps. He want to leave a mark on the world and let me tell you he already has maybe the world itself doesn't see it but the people who follow him and love him do and we will be with him till the end of his journey. So finding a purpose for life is a big thing just make sure this purpose is a good one.
Communicating with someone helps us be grateful for the people that come into are lives. If you never communicate with people then you will never grow bonds with people and you never find that person you are grateful to have in your life. Communication is a big key on being able to talk to anyone or get anything done. We all communicate with each other either it being small talk or full on conversions we talk to someone.
When it comes to faith many people have lost it or some still have it. A lot of people put faith into each other and that's a good thing. Having faith in other is a good thing if we have faith on each other then we could have a good time living. Faith in each other is tricky because its easy to lose it and it's harder to have faith in them if they already failed you but that's the best part in faith you can have faith that this time they won't fail you. Have faith in people because it's a good thing to do.
When problems pop up many like myself panic because things didn't go to plan and maybe there's a mess of things and lots of people tend to stress out or get mad at one another which just makes things more of a mess. Not all people are like this other make a backup plan and I am also like this I may panic but once that has pass I try to come up with a plan so we can get back on track. We all have to learn to be adaptable because things never go to plan and it's really hard but it makes it way easier to find a way to fix problems with plans gone wrong.
We are always going to fail no matter how hard we try to not we are only human and we will fail but that doesn't mean we should give up no we have to keep trying. If you give up on something you can't get better at it yes I know failing hurts and you just don't want to keep going but it's better to try and fail than to ever try at all not only that but you can learn form you pass fails if you try and you don't fail for the first time then you will never learn what you could have done better than before.
In everything we do there is always a starting point and in the Pyramid of Success we start with this enthusiasm. To get to a goal we have to start somewhere either it being just out of random or planning it rondom a long time we always begin somewhere. If you have the passion to do something then trust me you will be able to work at it till you get there. I myself have this and if you think about your goal almost everyday you will remember why you are doing what you're doing and that will fill you with the passion do keep going
Friendships are something I always had a problem with I had problems with keeping the friendship happy. It's true when they say that friendship is hard work you both have to keep it strong and not loss each other it's a joint effort. Sadly I took my best friend for granted and I still hate myself for what I did so dont be like me who took their friendship for granted love your friendships for you might miss them when they're gone.
Loyalty something any good person needs weather it being for friendship or a relationship loyalty is always needed. Knowing that someone has loyalty to you is something great but one little mess up and you could lose it and once you loss someone's loyalty you can pretty much never get it back fully. So if someone had given their loyalty to you dont over do it because it's a great thing to have. Loyalty is a gift so injoy it and dont overuse it because soon you won't be able to have it and people will have less self-respect for you.
When it comes down to teamwork you have to hear other peoples out see what they have to say so you can work together. You can't just say your way and do it that way teamwork is about working together so the group has to hear each other out. Problem solving is better and easier when you work together. So don't just go by your way hear everyone out and help each other out.
Getting to a goal will take lots of ambition for it. Goals are something we all have little or small we all have one but make those goals become real will take lots of work. I myself have a goal and to get to that goal i'll have to give it my all. I'll have to push myself while I keep my goal in mind. Ambitions can get you a long way in to your goal all that drive of determination helps you get closer to whatever goal you have in mine. I have ambition for my goal that I had in mind and i'll keep working to that goal for ambition drives me to keep going and i'll try my best to make that goal come true.
"Practice self-discipline and keep emotions under control. Good judgement and common sense are essential."
Failure it's all something we fear. It's something all of us never what to happen but even if we try our best we will always fail on something and failing even if it doesn't seem like it can be a good thing. Failing helps us grow it helps us see are mistakes and learn from them if we never fail we can never learn from our past mistakes. So when a chance comes up and failure is what scares you from doing it don't be scared because even if you fail learning from it can help you in the far future.
Adaptability is something important and something not many people have. This skill is highly important for when you have something that has to be done but it must be moved around for another day and you week is full being adaptability makes you ok with this and you find a way to make this happen. Another example is when a plan is changed and you couldn't do anything this skill is really usefull. When it comes to a goal let's say a meeting has to take place and this will help you get closer to your goal but something happened that had to change to meeting time and it's out of your hands being adaptability to this will help out.
Condition something we all need to learn. When it comes down to a goal we always have to be in good condition so we can get it. If we were in bad condition we wouldn't be able to work to are goal we won't be able to get anything done to get us closer to are goal. Its very important to have our bodies be healthy not only for our goals but also for are well being we can't just be sick and work ourselves to the bone we won't be able to stand that am pretty sure we would pass out or something else.
We all have a skill and we all need some skills get us through a problem. Some of us have skill that help us better than other people's skills. When it comes to group work those people each have a skill and they can either help the the team or not help the team with the skills they have. Some are helpful while other are not but one way or another skills are what we all need to get to a goal or to just finish off something we work on is skill and not give up on anything which is a skill.
Team spirit something not everyone has but can do good if you do have it. It's better to get along with your teammates then fighting you will get things faster other than just yelling each other to get stuff done. If we try to outshine each other fighting will happen and one person could be working on everything or nothing at all. So when you have team spirit try to have other show theirs as well so together you can work on whatever you can and get it done together.
Being honest is very important not only to other but to yourself has well. Honesty will help you in a goal either it being on a question someone asks you or planning out a day and being honest and going it's important. Lying is one of the things many people do and if you say you dont lie well am pretty sure you justed lied to me because everybody lies. Learning to be honest is something that takes time because it's so easy to slip up and just flat out lie to someone and once you lie to someone and they find out you will never get the same trust like you had before even if you never lie to them again it will never be the same.
When it comes down to unexpected problems having resourcefulness is a big help. For example you planned to meet up and finish a project with a group but someone gets stuck in traffic having resourcefulness would be a good help here thinking up a plan so you can wait for the person to get there. This skill can help in many different ways that listing them all would take forever so it's better to just show some examples of this skill in work. When getting to a goal many unexpected things can happen and at this time using this skill can help things go better in the meantime.
When you're in a situation just be yourself you'll be calmer that way. Sure sometimes depending on the situation you can't always being fully yourself but sometimes just being yourself can calm you down then other things trust me i've done it and I feel better after words. Poise is a great way to destress because when fully yourself it helps you calm down it helps you feel better take it from a person who has done it before and still does it to this day.
Giving reliability to other people in yourself can make respect on you. Being reliable is a good skill to have when others need you then it won"t be a problem because you have their back on whatever they need. This skill can help you in many ways for example gaining trust, building bonds and many other things. Not only will this skill help with getting people to trust you but it can also help you to get to a goal. Now I know being reliable is hard sometimes you want to go off and do something else or you forget about whatever you promise well it takes time to build it up and it also takes time for someone to trust you and once someone trust you never never destroy that trust because once broken it will never be the same even if you do get their trust back but it will never be the same again
Fighting for something you know has to be done is not always easy sometimes you fail sometimes bad things can come to be but in hard times there will always be some light work hard for the thing you want stay determined and whatever comes your way fight for the goal. I have a goal I fight fir everyday and what keeps me going is knowing that once that goal comes true I will be able to prove the those who did not believe in me wrong and show them in their face that I could do anything when I set my mind to it. So I would say find that thing that determines you so when you feel like their quitting you just think back on why you are really doing this and get back into fight for it.
When going out on an important date you have to make sure that you are your best. You can't go out and act like you're out with your friends when you are talking about important things. Being at your best when it's needed is important people will needed you and if you're off and about being a fool then no one will be happy the work they need you for will never get done and everyone will be mad at each other and maybe people will lose respect in you so when being at your best is needed do it because no one likes when one person slacks off.
Giving faith in someone and trusting that they will do what they need to do is a big chance because that person may not do it or do it wrong but yet we still need to try and give people faith. It very easy to lose faith in people and it really hard to trust people with that faith because you don't want the same outcome as before but that's something you have to do if you ever want to give in faith to someone every again. To the people who are given faith don't take it lightly because when you ever need help or something like that if you lost that faith then it will take forever to get that faith back.
Good things take time